Thursday, 10 November 2016

It's Chai NOT "Chai Tea"!

And I will slap the next guy who calls it that! (No I won't)

It's a different thing being a tourist in a foreign land. And a completely different thing when you start to live in that foreign land. It is funny how the last year I came for a visit I had decided I hate this place and would never think about moving. And look at me now, here, staying and fat! It's a feat you achieve when you are able to communicate to the barista what kind of coffee you want and another if it comes out the way you wanted it. You think I'm kidding? Ordering a coffee is worse than a viva; the number of questions you have to answer to get that one cup of coffee is mind-boggling. Picture this; the conversation:

Me - "Cappuccino"

Barista - "Caf/de-caf"

Me (Thinking) - "Why would i order coffee if I didn't want caffeine in it?"

Me - "Caf"

Barista - "Milk"

Me (Looking at her puzzled) - "Yes!"

Barista (Irritated) - "Whole Milk/Half n half/ Skimmed"

Me (Not understanding the other two options) - "Whole" (Thinking now it should be done)

Barista - "You want to add any flavors"

Me (Thinking) - "When will this end!!!"

Me - "No thanks!"

Barista - " Your name Please"

Me (Happily) - "Aditi"
(Make Payment, wait for coffee to arrive)

The other Barista - "ABIDI, here'e your coffee!"
(Me not reacting still waiting for my coffee)

The other Barista - "ABIDI, ABIDI, cappuccino whole milk"
(Me sounds like my order, I look at the counter they are all looking at me wondering why am I not responding to what is clearly not my name)

I take the coffee. Take a sip. Realize, even after all these questions the coffee has no sugar and tastes horrible. I put sugar, add more milk, add some chocolate and some vanilla and whatever is available on the table, take a sip, make a face and walk away. From this time forth I decided that I shall become a tea person.

The next time I go for tea, it is the most nose cringing experience in a cafe I've ever had, they took a clearly Indian chai and call it chai tea. The difference between chai tea and tea? Chai Tea has milk, tea doesn't and tea comes in all different flavors and colors none of them go with milk. You ask for tea, you are met with 10000 other questions, you ask for chai you get this really crappy thing called chai tea. And get this, the haldi wala doodh you used to howl and cry just to avoid drinking, is the latest fad here. People think its fashionable to drink Turmeric Latte (Literal translation - Haldi-Doodh) the entire city swooning over it and me just going face-palm. All this just to order one beverage which gives you a kick in the morning!

This is so different from the kind of tea drinking experience in India, baju wale bhaiya asks no questions, you expect no choices, baju wale bhaiya understands almost telepathically. You ask for tea, he gives you a cup from the forever boiling kettle. You take a sip and go""Aah.. aaj elaichi wali hai". I mean where is that element of surprise, if each and every ingredient in a simple cup of tea has been spelled out? I don't think these cafes would ever understand that. The tea stalls are less about the ingredients and more about the surprise. And that perfect cup of joy still eludes me..


And yes, this is an old chai photo. I cant fit into the camera lens at present  J




Friday, 5 August 2016

Technically Single: Not

I write this blog post as I eagerly await my precious' arrival to the big apple! And I figured that there is no better time than now to pen down my thoughts, about being uncoupled (for the want of a better word).

A little background is warranted, so here it goes: I shifted to NY back in March, my husband was going to follow suit, but somehow he didn't. I thought I'll miss home like crazy when I'm all alone in this new city and it will suck big time (I'll be honest it does suck, but not as much as I feared), but then when life gives you lemons, you ask for tequila shots!

So now that I've been doing this for 5 months, I can give you a few tips on how to use your time when you are husband-free:

1. Spend time with yourself: I can't remember the last time I was completely by myself. I honestly don't think I was ever on my own before this forced exile. So this was a good time to get in touch with myself. Turns out, I really don't have much to say to myself, maybe this is because I anyways talk to myself almost on a daily basis with or without people around, or it could also be that because I'm so fast at doing things I got this also done in record time. But the fact is I would not have known this until I got time to introspect.

2. Make new friends: If you've been in a relationship long enough, you forget the need to make new friends. So when you do get time, you should invest in people. This is important so you retain your social skills. Mind you, this does not necessarily mean you start going third wheel on your couple friends, this means make an effort. Also, this does not mean that once your husband joins you stop doing this, now that you have acquired the skills, keep them sharp!

3. Get a hobby: Turns out mine is cooking, and then eating what I cooked while watching copious amounts of TV. Nonetheless, cooking still counts as a very constructive hobby, at least I shall never go hungry! But you could pick up fancier hobbies, you know: extreme sports, adventure tourism, exorcism anything that picks you fancy.

4. Explore your city: This is an amalgamation of the above 3 things. Since you have time, and you have made new friends and you love to eat; you should use your new found freedom to explore the city. This was the best part of being on my own. You realize the best thing about these excursions is the mental notes you make about how you will go back again when you're "coupled" again! Or even better you could also hit those places which you can't go with a tag-along, I would not put in suggestions here lest it be used against me in future fights. My husband reads my blog you know.. (I force him to, but that's not important)

5. Go for a girl trip: I mean come on! You have to do this! It doesn't really even have to be too many of your girlfriends, even one is enough :) I had the best time when my sister visited me and we went for the weekend trips around New York. Not only was it more fun because I was meeting her after a long time, but also because girls are just more fun to hang out with ;)

This list is small on purpose, the best thing that happens when you are on your own is that you become independent. And part of being independent is to not rely on somebody else's lists but make your own!! So stop that mope, put on your dancing shoes and paint the town red my girls :)

Thursday, 23 June 2016

Downtown Eats: When Hunger calls

I've been in the big apple for a while now, while I'm getting used to the somewhat single lifestyle (would elaborate more on this in some other post) food has been the source of comfort. And how big is the New York dining scene can be summarized into this one crazy fact:

"There are enough restaurants in New York City for an individual to eat out every night for 54 years and never visit the same place twice."

Now with these amazing stats in place, lets get down to business. I work in Downtown Manhattan, my seat almost always looks our towards the Statue of Liberty (this has no bearing on the article, just wanted to brag), and I miss out on getting lunch more often than I would deem to be by mistake. So this means, I have to rely on eating out to satisfy my hunger pangs.

Given that I haven't been here long enough and I don't experiment as much as I would want to, this list might seem a bit short, but this is work-in-progress, I would add new places as and when I discover them. Enough said, let's get to it:

1. Ho Yip: It is obvious that I shall start with my absolute favorite! This Lunch only place does business only till 4, so be well in time or you will never know its awesomeness. Ho Yip is an authentic Chinese buffet/pre-portioned meals place, which very well pleases my Indian taste buds. This place is economical, you have a buffet which is $7 a pound, and no matter how much you stuff up your plate, you will never go beyond $10. They are considerate enough to have a few rotating items on offer, so you don't get bored of the spread. The buffet is very extensive, you have all possible meats, vegetables, both for appetizers and main course. They also have combo meals, in case you are feeling less adventurous and they have a well stocked Sushi bar. There is ample seating in this two storied establishment. I'm so in love with this place that I have already lost count of the number of times I've visited this place. One word of caution though, this place is not meant for strict vegetarians. Not because they don't offer vegetarian options (they do!), but because the place has this distinct smell of Asian spices, which might put you off if you don't wan't the smell of  crispy fried basa fish on your string beans. In case you are flexible and are alright with broccoli in oyster sauce, this might just be the place for you :).

2. Devon and Blakely: This might as well have been Deven and Bala, for they have such amazing lentil soups, they will instantly make you miss your mommy! These guys have three outlets around the city, and one happens to be right in my office compound. They offer sandwiches, salads and soups, the healthy New Yorker staple. I have tried the sandwiches and the soups, I haven't turned healthy yet so I'm not that into salad. The soups are amazing, there is a huge variety to choose from. And given that I'm kind of a regular here as well, I've tried most of them. My personal favorite is Lobster and crab bisque. But don't worry you don't have to just take my word for it, you could sample the soups before you decide. These soups are also reasonably priced, you get a small cup for around $6 and a large one for $7, add in half a sandwich for $5 and you are set for the meal. I'm not that much of a fan of the sandwiches though, as they are a bit too miserly on the spreads and hence the sandwiches are dry, but they go down nice with the soup. And they have lentil soups which are just as good as the tadke wali daal, just sprinkle some coriander, bring your own roti and you are ready for a complete Indian Meal. But be careful before deciding what is vegetarian just by reading the names, as its very easy to have a vegetable in chicken stock. Also, one more reason I think this could be owned by Indians, is the staff.The other day the cashier girl asked me if I was from India looking at my shakha. Now even a regular Indian would not know what this bangle is, unless you are a Bong. See we are omnipresent :)

3. Hudson Eats:This food court is bustling with people at right about 12 every afternoon. Even though finding a place to sit here is a great challenge, finding food that you want is not. You can find a lot of options both in terms of cuisines and depth. If you're feeling in the mood for a light and active lunch, there is chopt for salads. For those greasy juicy burgers you have the Little Muenster, for a little more suave version of it hop side-wards to Umami Burgers. Value for money Mexican burritos, bowls, and such at Dos Toros. And for that sweet something later, you can always bank on the deceptively inviting cupcakes at Sprinkles. A definite savior for the out of the usual craving.

4. Ruchi's: This blog shall be a waste if don't suggest an Indian restaurant, there are a few Indian places around Downtown, but this one is the only one which is decent. The best thing is lunch menu is half off everything, so it's light on the pocket. The dishes are bit on the sweeter side though, probably to cater to a broader audience. Everything said and done, it's a nice cosy place, which is very very busy during lunch hours. If you want to assure a place, I would suggest you reach there a little before 12 (11:50 also works). The staff is really courteous and never refuses even though you can see you wont be able to find a seat for yourself in the next two hours. This is a must visit if you're missing home. But don't expect the same taste as India. The search for the perfect Indian experience is on, would let you know as soon as I find it, till then you can make peace with this cute little retreat.

5. Elvez: The interiors of this restaurant are impressive, as you can see for yourself in the picture. Also, they have kept the menu simple and limited but made sure everything on the menu is lip-smacking. There is a wide variety of burritos available at your discretion and the sit down area has a authentic Mexican menu, which would certainly not leave you disappointed. A very good place to catch up with old friends while you grab a quick lunch. 



6. Wei West: So I'm not saying this would be the best oriental you would lay your hands on in this area, but it would surely be economical. This place has a lunch menu which is very reasonably priced and they serve amazing sake, and sushi rolls. The curries are a bit too thin in consistency for my taste, but they cook the meats tastefully so I don't complain much. It's not a must go, but if you are running out of places to eat, you may want to give it a shot.


7. Shake Shack: This place needs no explanation, the burgers are juicy, the fries are curly, the shakes are as thick as jelly. need I say more :)

8. Wafflaki: This blog post will not be complete if I don't tell you where you get desserts. All the sweet junkies, don't fret! Just make a dash for this little hidden waffle place right behind the WTC memorial. This has the most exhaustive menu of toppings, both sweet and savory. And if you are not very imaginative and don't know what goes with what, just order up the recommendations and you shall be a happy trouper! Don't miss this one if you love waffles as much as I do (Which is a lot!!)

9.Le District: This again is right in the building I work in, and is a french supermarket/cafe/fine dine/bakery. Lot of choices to go with your coffee. A lot of options in coffee to go with you banoffie pie :) If you're getting my gist, you will surely take one stroll across this huge multi-purpose food heaven.

10. Financier: Because I always prefer even numbered lists, this makes it on to the list on pure merit of the proximity to my office and a very carefully picked menu of desserts. I'll not comment on the coffee as it is too bitter for my taste and I prefer The Laughing Man to this any day. But the desserts here are both unique and tickle your taste buds in the right way. I would definitely recommend the pistachio eclair and the raspberry cheesecake, but you are free to try the usual ones too.

And with this I conclude the first ever restaurant recommendation list. This is one is very limited in the terms of area covered, but as I expand my radius I shall expand yours too.Till then, make do with what you already know!!   



Saturday, 16 April 2016

Heaven on Earth: Kashmir

“Gar firdaus bar-rue zamin ast, hami asto, hamin asto, hamin ast.”

Would have never known this to be true had I not seen it for myself. Let me begin with telling this to you, to really know how awesome this country is you should pay a visit to Kashmir! And I'll be honest with you I would have not gone, had a bunch of friends not gone there and come back happy and healthy ( A shout out to the travelers! You know who you are ;)) Also, to be even more honest this trip almost didn't happen, as when we had originally planned to go on the trip my MIL fell very ill, so we had to rush to Kolkata. The air tickets were non-refundable, but some stroke of luck; I had booked tickets on the airline in which my cousin happens to work, and by even more luck I remembered this fact just when it mattered the most. He did come to the rescue and got the non refundable non changeable tickets transferred to a later date, and so the trip did happen (Thank you Bro :)). And my MIL was also happy and healthy by then :).. That's what in normal parlance be called a Win-Win situation.

So we took this trip in the month of October, which is too late for flowers and too early for snow. Basically it was not the best time to go, but we went anyway. We followed the exact same itinerary my friends had followed, because we trust their judgement more than ours, with minor tweaks. First let me give a few tips:
1. The place is really expensive, so if you get a deal on hotels at least you shall be able to subsidize that. We used a website which had these huge discounts and we got rooms at awesome prices. (goibibo)
2.Also, home-stays are an option you should consider, we stayed at a home-stay for the first time and I can say that I didn't regret it! (Una Homestays) 
3. There are a lot of local rules that apply to tourists, so it is better that you hire a local guy as your driver as he also serves as a guide, and tells you where which rule applies and where you need to be careful and stuff like that
4. A lot of costs in Kashmir are fixed, cabs for instance. So it would be cheaper if you go in a bigger group as you would be able to capitalize on economies of scale (I'm an economics student, you can't take this away from me)
5. Food is expensive everywhere, so while you are paying a lot of money you better spend it at worthwhile places.
6. The weather is unpredictable, so be ready. Always carry an umbrella and a warm jacket.
7. Don't be all touristy and buy the usual. You never know if you're being sold real pashmina or fake. Having said that, I did buy one for my MIL :)
8. Kashmiri shop-keepers are sweet talking and very adamant in nature, don't give in to the sinking feeling. If you don't want something, you don't buy it. Period.
9. Alcohol is generally frowned upon in this area, for the sake of enjoying bliss of different kind, stay sober.
10. You would see army everywhere, don't panic and don't feel terrorized. There is peace in the valley, we roamed around Srinagar while the news channels were frantically reporting unrest, we came back unscratched.

Is it just me, or is my blog starting to give out useful tips? Probably I need to get more regular, to get over these rare pangs of thoughtful writing.


Me and these never ending prologues. So let's begin the journey. We landed in Srinagar in the afternoon, and headed straight for Gulmarg. Gulmarg, literally translates to the place with flowers. As I've already mentioned above, it was too late for flowers. But as its higher up than Sringar, the route was pretty and the air was fresh. We stopped at this really nice restaurant on driver's recommendation, we ordered local dishes and in all honesty they were nothing like I have ever tasted in my life. Wondering what it was? So if you are ever in Kashmir, and you happen to be a non-vegetarian, just pick and choose anything from the wazwaan and you shall not be disappointed. And, after every meal, you must drink the ever so delicious Kahwa. Enough about the food, how I always digest... err digress (joke in bad taste.. You think?) Moving on.. we finally reached Gulmarg, the sleepy town, who's claim to fame is all the movies shot there, the most recent one being Jab tak hai jaan. To be honest there is nothing much to do there in summers, except the gondola ride. Now the gondola has two phases, first one takes you to this flat grassland, where in Spring you would see lots and lots of flowers, but given we went later, we just saw grass. And then there is phase two, where you see snow. But as luck would have it, it was closed for public as they were installing new cable cars. Just our luck! Not to be deterred by the minor roadblock, we just reveled in the peace and quiet of the town. By the way, did you know, this is the place which has the biggest (probably the only government operated) ski institutes in India, and this place is thriving with activity during the winters, especially December thru March. A friendly advise, if you're not visiting Kashmir in any of these months, avoid Gulmarg. And, also, don't take the pony ride, its not worth it, just walk around that would be much more fun and we took a guide, though he was cheap, I don't think we really needed him.

Next stop, Pahalgam. Now this is what would have inspired Amir Khusrow to write the couplet. At least that is what I shall continue to believe till the end of my time. En-route we saw these amazing apple orchards, this is one thing we were perfectly on time for! This was the first time I saw apples, each branch had like a thousand shiny juicy delights hanging on it. Pahalgam was where we had booked the home stay, and I'm so glad we had decided to do so. But first a few negatives about the place, so there is a stay-order by the Kashmir government on any new construction in the area to stop it from being polluted, rightly so. But as a result, the house we stayed in was not brand new (to be read old), and felt like you were living in someone's house. In all fairness that's how its supposed to be. Second, we had reached Pahalgam a little after dark so we had real difficulty reaching the place. The lady owning the house was super caring and helpful, she had ensured a dinner and camp-fire for us. And the best thing was there was another couple in the house, and we hit it off instantly as they were Bongs (both, not one real and one pseudo like us) and fun. We bonded over the fire and then played some carrom, and told our stories. And then it was time to sleep. What an amazing decision it was to book the place was realized in the morning, when I woke up, and saw that the backyard had the Lidder river flowing in all its glory. And what's more I could go and sit by the rocks by just jumping the fence. And that's exactly what I did! I sat on a rock with my feet dipped in that cold water, all this while, the people staying in the fancy hotels looked at me with envious eyes, as they could not do so. Finally, the other three woke up, and we had this really nice breakfast, you could ask the care taker to make anything for you, and the guy was a really good cook. Made me appreciate the place even more, as we could have endless cups of tea, at any point in the day. Anyway, moving on, we next went on for the pony ride to Baisaran, now this pony ride you must not miss out on. For one thing its reasonable in terms of cost, and the other there is no other way to get to Baisaran. They would also offer some random other routes, stick to the main stream getting to Baisaran and back, as the other spots are not worth your while. I had so much fun on the ponies, for one I think my pony liked me, and two Sid's didn't and three the other guy (real tall big guy) screamed and shrilled like a girl!

Did I ever tell you, I want a pet horse? I don't think so. Yeah I want a pet horse, and a dog and also and elephant. Hmm.. come to think of it, I might want to own an entire zoo, if the opportunity ever presented itself. I'm not the most reasonable person when comes to desires, but then I'm allowed to want whatever I want.

Coming back to the valley, you start questioning your decision to get on the damn horse, the ride is that long and bumpy, but don't lose patience. After what seems like forever, the bouncing stops. The moment you get over the numbness, and move into the pasture, you would just gasp in awe of the beauty. They call it mini Switzerland, and I've been to Switzerland, I don't know why they do this, the place is beautiful beyond comparison, you don't need to belittle its beauty by comparing it to any other place in the world. The air was so fresh, the sun was warm and crispy, the rabbits and sheep made pretty faces and drew me towards them, so needless to say i had to get a photo with them. But more than anything, you just sit by the small rivulets and bask in the sun, and in the wandering thoughts appreciate the small things in life. We didn't want to go back, but the horses were timed.

 Reluctantly, we got back from the meadow. At least once during your stay, you must eat the locally caught fresh trout. There is nothing better tasting than a freshly caught fresh water fish. And needless to say that is exactly what we had. If you want the name of the place, its Trout Beat, but don't worry you wont miss it, there are not many places to eat in the small market. After this, we bade farewell to the lovely couple, and went on with the next thing on our agenda, which was exploring the pretty place a little bit more. You have to hire a local taxi to go beyond Pahalgam, even if you have your own vehicle, this is to provide livelihood to the locals, don't argue just go by the rules.

Now we went on further into the wilderness and the further we went, the prettier the place became. The river Lidder got more lustrous and noisy, the trees became greener and denser, and lets just say we became more and more impressed. So I'll tell you all the places we covered in this day trip: Aru Valley, Betaab Valley and the Chandanwadi.



In case you've watched Bajrangi Bhaijaan, and wondered where they got those scenic locations, Aru valley is your answer. As is the case with every place in kashmir, the guides point the locations and the movies you can see them in. Thankfully, due to the recent lot of film makers, this place has seen a spike in tourists. There are two ways you could enjoy the beauty of the valley, one is what we did, take a day trip, stop over at the view points chai dhabas and stuff. And the other is what the hippies who took the cab before us did, ask the cabby to drop you off at a flat land and camp for the night. If we had camping gear, we would have thought of doing it too (I would have, Sid would have panicked and ran). The effort Kashmir is putting to get back tourism becomes evident when you go to Betab valley. Now this place gets its name from the very famous Amrita Singh-Sunny Deol movie by the same name which was shot here back in the 80's. There is a Rs. 100 entry fee for this place, but you'll see why when you enter. They have this pristine river flowing through a albeit man-made but very pretty garden. They have put in so much effort into keeping the place clean, that they were taking the stones out from the river and replacing them with clean ones. And the result of this tedious exercise was for the lack of better words extra-ordinary! Oh Man that place! What bliss it was. And the last stop for this day trip was Chandanwadi, this is the spot where the Amarnath yatra starts every year. When we went it was not the time of the year yet, but we though of climbing up a few stairs just for the sake of it, and we could climb only a few steps, for the weight we carry. And with this last spot, we made the return to the pretty Pahalgam where the trout was waiting for us. I know I said you must have it once, but I said at least once.

By the time we got back to the hotel, our driver had filled us in on the recent happenings in the valley, and told us that if we start after dawn we might get stuck in the middle of riots. This was as there had been an incident in a village which lay on the way between Pahalgam and Srinagar. We're not the ones who take these warnings lightly. So when the driver said we need to start early, we did. Even though it was raining cats and dogs when we started, we stayed on track nonetheless. And I'm glad we took his advise, as once the day broke, we saw this huge line of trucks, refusing to go forward for the fear of being torched. We however, were out of the dangerous area, while the protesters were sleeping. And then we made it to the summer capital of J&K, Srinagar.

We had planned the trip in such a way, that we leave Srinagar for the last day, as our flight was from that airport. Owing to the protests we had reached Srinagar very early in the day and we were sleep deprived. So we figured, why not first take rest and then begin the sight-seeing as anyway it was raining. We bathed, ate breakfast, slept and even then the rains didn't stop; so we decided to get out any way. There was a curfew in the city that day, but that didn't mean the tourists couldn't be touristy, only the commercial places and the offices were closed, none of it of our interest. Our driver lived in Srinagar, hence he knew the places which would be open to public. We started with the Shankracharya Temple, one would think the rains would make the day gloomy, on the contrary it made it even more picturesque. We drove up the hill to the temple, on bright sunny days, you can see the entire lake from atop the hill, but it was raining and it was foggy so we saw a cloudy fluffy blanket over the lake, which was amazing. Post the temple, we went on to see all the gardens in the city, and I must say, this place was amazing. Even though it wasn't spring and the flowers were not in their full bloom, we were smitten. And a I just saw couple of pics on facebook from people who went recently(the right time to visit kashmir) and I was blown away! The list of gardens you must visit are as below:
1. Pari Mahal, this garden is atop a small hill and gives you a very beautiful view of the Dal lake
2. Chashme Shahi, this garden's claim to fame is the medicinal properties of the fresh water spirng. Apparently Jawahar Lal Nehru used to have this water brought to Delhi for his consumption
3. Shalimar and Nishat, both of these are huge gardens with the very kashmiri Chinar trees everywhere.
4. Tulip Garden, we couldn't visit as this is open only in spring. But from hearsay I know this is not to be missed.

We gave the shikara ride a miss because it was raining for most parts and also, the floating market was closed that day owing to the curfew. We ended the day with a few more delicacies from the wazwaan and again we were not disappointed. The next day, when we were to leave, the curfew had been lifted, the sun was shining at its full glory, the cab driver told us that the Gulmarg gondola had opened for the next phase, basically kashmir's way of saying want to bet you'll be back? You see I'm an eternal optimist. The glass is always half full, I didn't see it as the things we missed out on, i saw it as reasons to come back.

Oh Kashmir, you beauty. This blog was only to tell everyone that they must visit this paradise on earth, so they can come back to normalcy and gain back that lost grandeur it enjoyed a while ago.